28 Rules For Success

Tian Yi Yi: self centred people will be trapped in the biggest trap of life.

Everyone has a "self" - my body, my thoughts and feelings, my property,

Status and so on.

But if you are a smart person, you should think more about others, because without others, you will not have yourself.

"After the body and the body first, outside the body and body", "I" stressed too much, it will become a curse.

Sky rule two: too much attention to other people's vision will lose itself.

Everyone is unique, but many people like to live in accordance with others' opinions and opinions.

Just like the man in the fable of handwriting in the fable, such a person will lose himself, his personality and everything he can bring.

The true colors are the most beautiful.

Heaven rule three: deep desires, shallow opportunities

People often lose their minds when playing with people.

In ancient times and at present, there are too many things to lose in love and greed. Nowadays, the world is changing with each passing day.

And self-cultivation is heavy, and at any time will be plunged into a terrible crisis.

Heaven rule four: moderation is medicine, overdose is poison.

Pride is like a full moon, and it is increasingly deficient; proud people always think they have knowledge and ability, but the real reason for pride is ignorance.

Please remember Lev Tolstoy's clever metaphor: "if a person's real ability is compared to the score value, his self evaluation is the denominator; the larger the denominator, the smaller the fractional value."

Heaven rule five: good fighters, fighting in an invincible position

Everyone desires to succeed and yearn for a happy life.

However, it is better to "retire from the net" than "to burn incense on a regular basis" rather than participate in competition at the same time.

Heaven rule six: people who lack self-control can achieve nothing.

Do you dare to dance in shackles? Mr. Wen Yiduo compared poetry to shackled dance.

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We cannot conceive of games without rules, nor can we envision words and deeds without control.

Everything is beautiful only under the control of rules and rules.

Heaven rule seven: can not surpass oneself, then can not surpass others.

"People are right, the world is wrong."

Whether a person can win his opponent in the fierce competition of survival and win a place depends on whether he can conquer himself. Rather than defeating others, defeating himself is a bigger problem.

Day rule eight: making friends is the most important thing in life, and it is related to success or failure in life.

Friendship can not exaggerate the meaning of life.

Too many people decide the fate of their lives because of their friends.

One sentence, "Cheng Yi Xiao He, also defeated Xiao He", has made people feel emotion since two thousand years ago.

That is why the topic of choosing friends and making friends is always new.

Heaven rule nine: flowers are full of flowers around them, and thorns are full of thorns.

This is a question of how to treat others better. The answer is very simple. To treat others kindly and ultimately to benefit oneself, and to do evil with others, will sink oneself in the situation of never redemption.

"You are the one who goes against the other," your life is paved with flowers or thorns.

Heaven rule ten: without enough measure, there is no scale for major events.

Don't ask for forgiveness.

It is better to laugh at it than to haggle over it, especially not to try to change others.

If you open up one side, you may be able to return from all quarters.

Why not?

Heaven rule Eleven: good at grasping human nature, in order to win hearts and minds.

"Win the hearts of the people, win the world, lose the hearts of the people lose the world", "the heart is the fate of heaven."

If we want to win the hearts of the people, we must be good at grasping human nature, especially the weakness of human nature.

Human nature is like heaven.

Heaven rule twelve: the power of language is enough to dump the world.

"All the mass movements in this history are due to the power of language."

Although this is hard to agree with, it is a fact that this is the function of language.

It inspires us that language is power, which is enough to conquer the heart and everything.

Heaven rule thirteen: independence and hard work

We live in a world dominated by "majority". Power is bestowed by "majority". Stars are "majority", and the rich are "majority" fattening.

The essence of "majority" is ordinary.

In the case of "majority" can veto everything, just like light and dust, get mixed up with everyone!

Heaven rule fourteen: capricious people are rebellious and close.

In a volatile modern society, the chances of changing a target or partner are greatly increased.

However, Chinese people are very "loyal". Those who job hopping are often seen as traitors. Stepping on two boats will be seen as capricious.

Loyalty does not mean that we should be conservative. What should we do?

Day rule Fifteen: positive all things can be done, nothing negative.

There are three kinds of things in the world. It is impossible to achieve.

Most of them belong to third kinds.

Therefore, positive or negative factors are the decisive factors for the success or failure of a career.

If God is born, your mind is heaven's will.

Sky rule Sixteen: lying on the bed can't get on the road.

The plan can be perfected in the implementation. Conditions can be mature by creation, waiting for everything to be prepared, and only the plan is aborted.

If you want to sail away, you can't have no risk.

Perhaps the greatest risk is waiting, and the safest way is to do it.

Heaven rule seventeen: good at external force, business has fulcrum.

Do you remember what Archimedes said? "Give me a fulcrum, and I can pry the earth up."

Every career needs a fulcrum, which is external force.

Although human nature is selfish, it is also willing to help. As long as you have a beautiful blueprint, he is the best to shake Qian Shu.

Heaven rule Eighteen: Piano must not be three hands.

Although playing the piano must move ten fingers, it is not allowed to insert a third hand.

In the same way, you must decide your own business.

We should be careful in preventing the third person who is defeated. Two, we must strictly warn if we do not retract it.

Cut it decisively.

Rule Nineteen: work concentration is directly proportional to career success.

It is a rule of iron to "concentrate on diligence and waste in play". Only those who concentrate on their work can succeed. The more concentrated they are, the greater the success.

As Xunzi said, "the earthworm has no claws, the bones and bones are strong, the earth is eaten on the earth, the yellow water is drunk, and the heart is one; the crab six kneels and the two claws are not the point of snake food, but can not be trusted.

Heaven rule twenty: fatal failure depends on weak inferiority.

Do you know that between the glorious successor and the sad loser, there is only a tiny difference.

The score of a ball is to lose a ball game. One percent of the defective products are enough to destroy a famous brand.

Therefore, we must not neglect the weak inferiority and strive for the decisive advantage.

Heaven rule twenty-one: defeat by defeat is the real failure.

Everyone has to experience failure, sooner or later.

This is not an unknown prediction. God's school is not allowed to miss classes.

There is no easy sailing in the world. Failure to fight is the only way to success.

So the true successes can only be those who have failed and have no spirit.

Day twenty-two: the secret of success is to be more intelligent, not harder.

People always emphasize hard work and hard work, why do we have to endure hardships and hard work? Why not try to win the harvest with one or two points of cultivation? In the era of knowledge economy, that is, the age of intellectual economy, wisdom is more valuable than hard work.

Sky rule twenty-three: the road ahead is dark.

It is not "all roads lead to Rome", nor is there a path that is always right.

People who are not adjusting their direction will move faster and farther away from success.

It is best to go forward and explore, discover mistakes, resolutely correct them, and never go any further on the wrong path.

Heaven rule twenty-four: do great things without any difficulty.

A man who travels far can not bind his legs on the road, and those who do great things can not stop because of small sections.

It is a bad thing to stick to a small section.

When a conflict occurs between the whole and the part, between interests and morality, between reason and emotion, we should not only understand the general principles, but also make decisions and perseverance.

Heaven rule twenty-five: win the weapon, do not show it.

The sword of a fighter can be seen only in the light of blood. Once the weapon of victory is revealed, you will fall down before the sword is pulled out, and will always fall in the blood pool of regret.

Heaven rule twenty-six: those who fight well must seek the strength.

Wise men do things with care, whereas foolish men only know strength.

With the potential, you can stir 42 kilograms, but it is more difficult to fight against it.

The so-called "Heroes create the current situation" is only possible when they are good at using the potential. Therefore, the art of war of Sun Tzu says: "the good fighters seek the momentum, not the people."

Sky rule twenty-seven: challenge the limit, watch out for extremes.

Can the limit be challenged? No! No one has ever broken the real limit.

Those successful challengers only break through some big obstacles, and the real limit is insurmountable.

There is a great danger hidden in the impulse to challenge the limit.

Heaven rule twenty-eight: wise men do not dance "double-edged sword".

Most of the winning weapons have their own danger, but the temptation of interest makes people reluctant to "double-edged sword".

So the future is complicated, and the bottom is deep and shallow.