First Employment, Then Job Hunting, Housing Is Not Reliable.

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< p > in recent years, more and more college graduates are not sure about their a href= "http://sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > career planning < /a >. In many societies, there is a rumor that college graduates are unemployed at the same time.

This is a way for people to get used to.

But in those years, graduates who graduated but were not employed, turned their homes to chew the old.

Yesterday, the reporter learned from the Ningbo Federation of labor unions that the General Union recently conducted a survey on the employment situation in Ningbo: by the end of 2013, 69 thousand and 200 registered unemployed persons in the city of Ningbo had been reduced by 15.65% over the same period last year.

The unemployment rate of college graduates or above accounted for 18.49% of the total, which has increased significantly over the same period last year.

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< p > < strong > earning 2000 yuan per month is not enough to buy cosmetics money < /strong > /p >

P, which runs 8 years of employment related news, every year a reporter sees a lot of newcomers taking a stroll around the job fairs with enthusiasm and a bit of jerk.

In recent years, I have known many young people who have been chewing their homes at home after graduation.

Most of them are from Ningbo, whose family conditions are superior.

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< p > Xiaomei is a reporter's "Bai Fumei" who was known in an interview. He was born in Ningbo in 1988, and his family is superior.

Xiaomei college entrance examination results are not ideal, so in the international class in the country for a year, and later pferred to Switzerland to study business administration, studying abroad spent about 1000000 yuan.

After returning to China in 2011, Xiaomei spent a few months looking for a job, but the salary was only about 2000 yuan. She couldn't see it at all. "It's not enough money for cosmetics. The investment return rate of studying abroad is too low, so it's better to stay at home."

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< p > parents do not want their daughter to be wronged, so that she can get along with her temperament and work slowly.

Later, Xiaomei watched the stock market while preparing for the civil service (micro-blog).

A year or so, it has also given up, the stock market does not make money, it is too difficult to test civil servants.

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"P" over the past two years, she was almost "full-time" busy blind date.

Parents still respect her choice - "finding a good husband is more important than earning two thousand or three thousand yuan a month."

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< p > Xiaomei said, because no work, it is still boring.

"I often have nothing to do at home.

However, staying at home for a long time is very lazy.

They usually wake up and wake up naturally, thinking about getting up early and not free at work.

Besides, it's always tiring to deal with people in a strange environment. "

Now, Xiaomei's plan is to find a suitable person quickly, get married and have children.

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< p > < strong > go to work to see people's face, so it's better to go home and see mom's face < /strong > /p.

P is different from Xiaomei's family. Xiao Ding, who lives next to the Moon Lake, was born in an ordinary wage earthen family. After graduation, he was in his home for more than two years.

The reporter met him at the beginning of this year's graduates' meeting. When he was asked to work by his mother, he always felt "unsatisfactory" after a morning's shift.

Xiao Ding studies computers, and people are shy. Their greatest interest is playing online games.

After graduating from college in 2010, Xiao Ding worked 3 jobs before and after, and the longest one was only 5 days.

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< p > "do not want to see people's face."

This is why Xiaoding resigned.

He thought it would be better to go home and look at his parents' face.

Unexpectedly, the parents not only "did not give their faces", but sympathized with their son's experience, and urged him not to rush to work.

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"P", so Xiaoding also peacefully at home "house" up.

At the beginning, it also browsed the work information on the Internet, slowly playing online games all day long.

When he was in the house, he became more and more reassuring: "I don't have much to eat at home. I'll eat some rice and use some electricity.

You can't earn much money when you go out to work. "

After two years at home, Xiao Ding became more and more silent. He did not like to deal with people. He often did not go out of the house for more than 10 days.

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< p > > "if we go on like this, people will be abolished!" until this year's Spring Festival, Xiao Ding's mother is intolerable. She must "pledge" her son to attend the fair.

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< p > Tian Feng community, there is a boy, poor family, father's monthly pension is less than 2000 yuan, his mother does some scattered cleaning activities.

However, these did not become the driving force of his work.

After graduation, I spend every day at home playing online games, sitting in front of the computer until midnight.

There are 2000 families in the Tian Feng community, and 18 graduates from the family have been cheathing.

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< p > < strong > parental acquiescence tolerance, the more lazy the child is, the less lazy the /strong is. "/p".

< p > graduation but not employment. There are many reasons for the growing ranks of the elderly.

For example, the overall employment situation, the professional setting of universities, the guidance of public opinion and so on.

In the final analysis, the reasons for graduates and parents are the most important.

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< p > when contacting with these graduates, one of the main reasons is that they are used to living in a house, but they are lazy and afraid.

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< p > many of them, at the beginning, just because of the gap between ideal and reality, for a time can not bear the cause of injustice and so on, and think of "going home" as a temporary "retreat".

Unexpectedly, "after returning, there is no longer courage and confidence to find the way."

For example, Xiaomei once sighed: "they have been idle for so many years and do not want to get used to it any more.

If you start working with your classmates at the very beginning, you may get used to it.

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< p > parents' approval, acquiescence or tolerance of "gnawing old" is obviously the fertile ground for the existence of "gnawing old people".

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< p > the view of most parents is that although I graduated from University, I am still a child.

After all these years, it's not bad for me to spend more time.

Work slowly. It's not bad that two thousand or three thousand yuan a month.

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< p > < strong > > unemployment after graduation: < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > is it because work is too hard to find? < /strong > < /p >

< p > why does the proportion of unemployed young people with higher education become higher? Is it really because the < a href= "http://sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > work < /a > is too hard to find? Qian Yilin, director of Ningbo talent development center, told reporters: "compared with previous years, the employment situation of Ningbo graduates is generally good, relatively stable and slightly grim."

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"P", taking the 2013 college graduates in Ningbo as an example, as of June 17th this year, more than 31600 employment agreements had been signed among college graduates in the city, and the employment rate was 78.94%.

The average employment rate of undergraduate colleges is more than two times more than the same period in the whole country.

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< p > from the total supply and demand relationship, the supply of university graduates can not meet the needs of enterprises and institutions.

In 2013, there was a total of 70 thousand job demands for graduates at all levels of the talent market, and the number of Posts was still far greater than that of graduates.

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< p > Qian Yilin thinks: "at present, there are not enough job opportunities and jobs in Ningbo, so long as graduates have job aspirations, they should be able to find jobs."

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< p > however, from the perspective of supply and demand structure, employment is indeed difficult.

He said, "a large part of the reason is that graduates are expecting too much and hope to find jobs that are easy, decent and highly paid.

The number of these jobs is small, the requirements for job seekers are high, and fewer graduates are willing to work, so it is difficult for them to find jobs.

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< p > < strong > let children learn to live on their own. < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > is more important than anything else < /strong > < /p >.

< p > "not bad one thousand or two thousand yuan", "can afford to live at home", "can't bear children to be wronged"......

This is why many parents "acquiesce" in their children's homes.

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< p > for this, Qian Yilin reminds graduates and parents that their children go to work after graduation, not only a few thousand yuan a month's wages.

Even if the family has the condition to keep a child for life, let him eat old, but also can not deprive children of going out to work.

If you don't go out to work for a long time, your happiness will be lower and lower.

It is more important than ever to encourage children to go out of their homes and integrate themselves into society.

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< p > "although I usually heard that I had chew the old house after graduation, I didn't expect it to be so large."

Mr. Zhang, director of Ningbo Pan Asia Human Resources Limited, said: parents should not indulge their children too much, and have the obligation and responsibility to "drive children out of their homes to work" to help their children adjust their employment mentality.

Only when we go to society and even suffer some grievances can children truly grow up and grow independently.

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< p > < a > href= > http://sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp > > Ningbo < /a > City Federation of trade unions also advises graduates to objectively evaluate their abilities and rationally face the first job.

It is much more rational and rational to be employed first and then choose a career.

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